ARIES FAMILY :))

About the Aries Child

A Natural-Born Leader

If your Aries son or daughter was born ahead of schedule, it should come as no surprise: Aries children are always pushing ahead of the pack. With an "Are we there yet?" outlook, they are impatient to arrive and get started already!

Aries children possess a passionate, creative, and restless nature. They seem to have more energy than other children, with a vitality that's matched only by their natural bravery. Their "me first" attitude can be a challenge for anyone who has to contend with their high spirits and frequent self-absorption.

Legendary for their straightforward honesty, Aries children tell it like they see it. They can overstep boundaries because they're naturally impulsive and tend not to look before they leap.

As the parent of a young Aries, you're probably no stranger to epic temper tantrums. Yes, Aries children have a hard time keeping their emotions under control, but there's a positive side to this: They don't hold a grudge. Once the fireworks are over, so is their anger.

Since Aries children are great at starting grand projects but not as keen on sticking with them, you'll need to be patient as you guide your child gently but firmly, helping her stay on track.

Also make sure she gets plenty of exercise. Any vigorous activity will be an excellent outlet for her energy, and if it's a competitive sport, so much the better. But be sure she wears a helmet or any other essential safety gear. In their eternal hurry, Aries children tend to be accident-prone.


About the Aries Parent

An Inspiring Act to Follow

As an Aries parent, you're a natural leader. You have lots of energy, and you're passionate about your interests. Your children find you inspiring, exciting, courageous, and a wonderful example to follow -- except when they find you a little bit insensitive and overbearing.

Yes, your mind is quick and your mouth is even quicker, and sometimes you say things you later regret. Also, you have a bit of a temper, so when your children frustrate you, they know exactly when and why. Well, at least you let your irritation go once you get it off your chest! And your kids always know where they stand with you.

An active lifestyle suits you and your family best. Take your kids hiking or challenge them to a game of volleyball or soccer in the park -- but make sure you don't get too competitive, especially if any of your children are the sensitive sort. Aggressive displays of energy might be a bit much for them to handle.

On the other hand, you're their biggest supporter and they know it. You'll be on the sidelines cheering for them whether they're competing in a debate or a basketball championship.

Your children will always appreciate your honesty, even in its bluntness, and the youthful energy that keeps you young even as you grow older. Make it a point to show them your tender side, too. They need to know they can rely on your emotional support as well as your strength and dynamic energy.


With two Aries sharing the helm of parenthood, your family life will be anything but dull! Equally energetic, your biggest challenges as parents will be to coordinate your efforts to cover all the bases and to share the leadership that comes naturally to both of you. By taking turns or dividing duties, you'll overcome the temptation to compete with each other. And by mixing it up this way, you won't get bored.

As honest and straightforward as you both are, your kids will always know where they stand with you. Conversations may be loud, but they will be sincere! Your youthful spirit will help you relate to your children, but your impatience and temper may create problems. Apologize when you err, and follow up necessary discipline with words of love and support. Your enthusiasm and courage will win the hearts of your children. 

Me, You and Us :))

this post is specially for you .. for you to understand how i feel upon seeing what i saw .. and i want to understand the reason you do what u did .. remember the night i messaged you, asking whether are u still contacting anybody else ?? you said No .. but, 4 days before that, u added a few people thru MSN .. i saw all ur activities .. and i wonder, is there still anything that ur hiding from me ? i didn't asked u because, i dun wanna spark a quarrel between us .. so, i kept quiet .. just making my own assumption to kill my insecurities .. ayang, i want us to be truthful to each other .. please dun hide anything from me .. you know that im insecure .. all i want is your assurance .. your assurance that u will never leave me again :( your assurance that u will love me like u always do .. that is all i need .. u told me ur not using ur Twitter account anymore .. but yet, i found out u blocked me .. why are u doing all these ?? what is there for u to hide and block me ?? like i said, i dun wanna ask u about all these because i dun wanna quarrel with u .. but, u've been hiding things from me .. i love you ayang .. i can't live without you .. and you know that .. i know i did countless of mistakes, but then, all i want is you .. nothing else matter .. and not forgetting our daughter .. i do not want us to fall apart .. we have stayed strong thruout this 1 and a half year .. and there's more to come .. my longest relationship of all .. the only person im in love thruout this 1 and a half yr is you .. others are nothing to me ayang .. please, dun hide anything from me .. okay ?? u know if u were to tell me, i won't be mad at you .. u know me very well .. i can never be mad at you for so long .. i love you .. i will always do .. remember that okay ?? and, i will never leave you for someone else .. :)) 

Nur Maria Arianna Bte Khairul Izam

Well well well ! it's been ages since I update my one and only Blog :)) 5 looonnggg months I must say !! Hmm .. I don't know where shall I start first .. Maybe I'll start with my precious daughter :)) she was born on the 19th April 2011 !! We're the April/Aries familyy !! :)) and so, at this date, Nur Maria Arianna is already 5 mths old :)) alot alot alot of things happened along the way I must say :(( but yet, I'm still standing strong .. juggling between work, Maria and life itself .. well, I guess you guys would like to know what happened between me and Mr Boyfriend right ?? hmmm .. we're still in good terms and we'll just let time tells everything :)) the most important thing is, he's been a supportive father for Maria :)) && I almost forget how to share to you guys my experience of giving birth !! haha ! its a painful yet wonderful experience :)) having Kyo's support thru out my labour, I felt blessed :)) 


Hari Raya itself was so-so :(( the sad thing was, I couldn't celebrate it with Baby Maria .. some of my family members are not aware about her presence in our family .. but, well, as parents, we still make time to celebrate this festive season as a family too :)) we'll be going out for Hari Raya this coming Saturday :)) Kyo had already bought Baby Maria her Hari Raya dress !! and I'm looovviinnggg it !! :)) okay, I got to go !! Toodless :))

Marina Bay Sands Madness :))

hello bloggers !! I've not been updating my blog eversince boyfriend's back from China :)) because I'm having lotsa fun .. hehe ! well, it's been a tiring but an enjoyable weekend for me, boyfriend and close frens :)) went to Marina Bay Sands on the 2nd and 3rd April .. at first, everything was in a mess but then, managed to pull thru .. those who didn't attend, I really do understand your situation :)) upon arrival, most of them were already there .. followed by the rest in the evening .. overall, a nice place to relax ourselves and rewind everything .. loosing all the pressures we're having .. to the few of my frens who's having their own disputes, I really hoped you guys did enjoyed yourselves :)) it so sweet of Roy to give me and boyfriend a couple mug from Precious Thots :)) thanx dude ! well, I regretted not going to Skypark upon arrival because when I went there 1 hour before checking out, we realised that we've missed out alot of fun there ! the place was awesome !! should have gone there with the rest :( but, I managed to snap some photos while we're at the Skypark :)) So, we checked out at around 12 noon together with my Soul and Roy :)) We then went to Plaza Singapura to have our lunch and then back home .. All of us was fatigued from all the laughter we had the previous night :)) So, as planned, we're gonna have another party for Countdown this year :)) and I'm sure it's gonna be a BLAST !! by the time, Baby G will be there too !! hehe !

And so, on the 4th of April, to my surprise, boyfriend actually finished work early than expected :)) he called me up at around 7 plus in the evening, asked me to get dolled up and meet him under his void deck .. Luckily I had already taken my shower and washed my hair .. if not, It would be a rush for me .. he wanted to celebrate my birthday :)) I was touched indeed :)) So, I went over to his place and waited for him to get dressed up .. We went to Plaza Singapura to catch the 9.15pm show of the Battleship of Yamakato :) It was an interesting show of spaceship having their so called 'war' .. 2 hours show and luckily we already bought some food for us to eat in the theater .. the show ended at around 11.45pm .. we took the train and alighted at Kranji .. then fortunately there's still bus number 170 service to Ten Mile Junction :)) upon alighting, we took a cab back home .. boyfriend sent me home and then proceeded back home too :)) ohh, I almost forget .. when I was at his place, while putting on my sandals, boyfriend actually surprised me with my birthday present !! I kept on pestering him to wear his watch, but he insisted that he doesn't wanna wear it .. so, I was abit confused .. but then, after opening the present, I understood why he didn't wanna wear his watch .. because he bought for me a couple watch for us !! :)) the watch was indeed BEAUTIFUL !! he explained to me why he choose to buy me a watch for my birthday this year :)) I shall keep the meaning to myself because I dun wanna share it here *wink* So, both of us wore the watch :)) but mine need alteration because it's quite loose for me .. will do the alteration by this week .. So, by the weekends I can wear it with boyfriend :)) I'm touched, heart and soul with boyfriend's surprise for me this year :)) thank you so much love ! your birthday is coming soon love :))

After coming back from MBS, I'm having severe backache non-stop .. it's really killing me !! last night was the worst .. I cried all the way to 'tahan' the pain .. I'm mentally ready if my baby wanna come out .. seriously .. I can't stand the pain anymore .. I can't eat or even sit ! the pain will only subside if I lie down .. and I can't do anything when I'm lying down .. OMG ! I just wanna get it over and done with .. I wanna give birth ASAP !! no joke .. It is damn painful .. I've never experience such pain :( and I'm totally prepared for birth .. boyfriend was dumbfounded and didn't know what to do .. haha ! ayang, dumbfounded is lost okay .. don't think that I called you dumb .. hehe ! I know he's trying his best to console me, but all sorts of consolation won't do any good unless you really know how it feels !! seriously ! all I do now is lie in bed and do nothing .. and now, as I'm updating my blog, the pain will come and go !! It's very irritating and I feel like shouting my lungs out due to the extreme pain !! okay, I shall stop here before I'm in pain and start crying again .. I gotta relax myself .. gdnite bloggers .. iloveyou boyfriend :))

Note to readers : The date was supposed to be 7th April 2011 at 1.08AM .. I procrastinate this blog till today .. haha !!

It hurts ..

hello bloggers :/ I'm kinda down at this time of the night .. I dun noe, just wish to let it all out here .. I know those who are reading this are my close friends and my boyfriend .. maybe .. if he still remembers that I'm always updating my blog .. nonetheless, I feel so empty tonight .. I couldn't figure out the reason .. and as I'm typing this, I realised that, we can't always expect much from people .. we have to be standing on our own feet, needless if we're attached, married or even single .. all my hopes were crushed tonight .. I forced myself to be strong .. to not cry over petty matters .. but then again, I'm soft inside .. It's just ME .. I can't sleep for the past few nights, missing him, because he's far away from me .. but tonight, I can even close my eyes .. because I know that he's back, but yet, I still miss him .. I shouldn't be feeling this since he's back .. and why am I feeling this ? Maybe I should just blame myself .. blame myself for hoping that he will give all his attention .. blame myself for hoping that he knows that I've been missing him .. blame myself for poking my nose into his MSN chats, blame myself for confronting a girl that chatted with him before, blame myself for standing up for him, blame myself for EVERY SINGLE THING !!

Things have changed and my biggest fear is that he will change :') every night before going to sleep, I'll always pray to God to make us a stronger being .. to be able to overcome all the hurdles in life .. but then, I guess God doesn't YET wanna answer my prayers .. I will never stop praying to HIM .. now that he's safe at home, I'm more than contented :') Gdnite love .. I love you and I miss US :')

It's already 3.38am now .. and I still can't sleep .. everybody's at their dreamland .. and I'm still stuck in reality .. I'm tired today .. walking the whole day with my friends .. I guess I laughed too much just now .. and I'm sitting here, crying at night .. life's unpredictable .. we wouldn't know what will happen in 5 minutes time .. how I wish I can work .. but I'll just wish upon wishes :) I guess he's already asleep now .. I'm planning to go to kimie's place in the morning later .. but, I can't even sleep NOW .. my body tells me that I'm tired .. but, my mind couldn't stop thinking .. I shall have to off the internet connection in a while and I guess I'll just lay in bed staring at the wall .. maybe, that way, I can sleep .. gdnite bloggers .. iloveyou boyfriend :')

Turning 22 in a week's time :))

It's the 29th today .. so, that means, boyfriend will come back in 2 days' time :)) I'm surprised that I can survived for the past 8 days :)) it's not that I can live without him, but the thing is, I'm more independent whenever he's not around .. boyfriend wants me to be dependent on myself if he's not around .. unless if he's around, I'll depend on him .. hehe ! i miss him soo much .. no words to describe it :( but alhamdulillah, we made it thru ayang :)) and ... I'm turning 22 in a weeks' time !! time passed in a blink of an eye :)) alhamdulillah once again that I'm celebrating my brithday with boyfriend for the 2nd time :)) April's gonna be an extremely one of the best months :)) we're gonna have a gathering this coming weekend, followed by my birthday, and then the following weekend will be boyfriend's birthday !! this time round, I'm not gonna let him know what's my surprise for him for his birthday ! haaha ! he's always spoiling my surprise plans for him .. MBS was supposed to be a surprise, but, he ended up knowing everything =/ haiyoo ! so, boyfriend, plss .. let me surprise you atleast once :)) you've given me alot of surprises ..

My sister is being super irritating for the past few days !! I can't stand her !! I dun wanna hate her or else my daughter will be like her .. but, she's really attracting everybody's attention and acting as if whatever she's doing is RIGHT !! I seriously HATE her !! I guess step siblings are really not meant to be close even how close we try to be :)) well, I also guess it's because I hate her dad ! enough about her in my blog .. wasting my precious time !

Now, I'm watching Buku Harian Baim :)) this gorgeous boy is sooo adorable !! I love watching his show every single day at 6pm .. I wished my daughter will grow up to be like him :)) he really take care of his mum at the age of 3 .. can you imagine that ? he won't let his mum drop a tear .. always be there for her 'Bunda' (he calls his mum that) :)) to sum it all, I've never see a 3 year old boy like him .. very intelligent in talking and have a gold heart :)) I salute his parents for his upbringing :))

Everybody wants birthday presents for their birthday .. I used to think that way too :)) my family always wanted to celebrate my birthday in the past, but then, I was in Girls' Home .. last year we managed to celebrate my 21st birthday at home with family and friends :)) but for my 22nd birthday, all I wished for is to be a good mum to my daughter .. I thank my mum for bringing me up to this complicated yet beautiful life .. It's ironic indeed .. I'm contented with the people I have in my life .. my family, my boyfriend and my baby girl :)) I don't wish to lose them in any ways .. unless God loves them more than I do .. and I also pray that God will somehow answer my prayers .. I wanna grow old with the person whom I love with all my heart .. my boyfriend .. obstacles after obstacles won't falter us .. insyallah, we will remain strong :)) i love you boyfriend .. never will I forsake you and our baby .. let's go thru this together :)

I'll end my blog here for today :)) so much of self reflection I've done here :) I love you boyfriend ! come home soon !!

Life as it is :))

hello bloggers ! I'm done with my dinner :)) first and foremost, I'm terribly missing my boyfriend :)) but, I'm left with 2 more days for him to come back .. and after that, I'm looking forward for our upcoming events :)) Super excited !! the pictures I posted are the places that we're gonna go this coming weekend ! yeaa ! And my mum actually allowed me to go .. Surprising much !! in the first place, I didn't wanna inform her that I'm gonna overnight at MBS .. but then, I decided to tell her and face all her naggings ! but, I was shocked when she actually allowed me to overnight .. I understand the reason she won't allow me to overnight is because I'm pregnant and I know her intentions are good .. but, I promised her that I will take good care of myself :)) I'm lucky to have my mum and granny to take care of me during my pregnancy .. or else, I wouldn't know all the "pantang2" during pregnancy :)) and I'm sure that when my baby has arrived to this world, they will take extra care of my baby girl :))

So, yesterday, we cleaned up my room for the arrival of my baby :)) now, my room is in tip top condition for my baby to stay in :)) kalau tak, very the dusty u noe ! hehe ! my granny even wants me to deliver ASAP .. WTH ! hahaa ! Boyfriend.I.Miss.You ! I watched a video at Youtube, and I learnt something .. here's the dialogue ..

" I always believe that when something bad happens, it is a warning as it is payment for vices we had done, whether we realize it or not .. But it is difficult to accept something so hideous .. We're always hoping that there will only be green meadows and blue skies .. When bad things happen, our plan in our life changes .. everything will be different .. Like it or not, this is life .. "

signing off,

Ae'mma

PS: I love boyfriend :))